I suffer from infertility but my husband doesn’t want to use treatments. Advice?


I have PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome) and I can say from my home in that ovulation tests two or three times a year. We agreed that we are ready to try for a baby but my husband refuses to let me take Clomid, which is what my doctor suggested. She wants to start Provera, then the control of my cycle and start the clomid at the right time, but my husband says he does not like the way it is. . . he thinks it takes away the romance of it and he wants to try ourselves for one year or less. My doctor tried to explain the chances of falling pregnant with me on mine are very rare, but it does not move. He says he has faith that God will help me develop ourselves. I think because he was raised by a mother who was a hippie macrobiotic eating alone in his life has never taken prescription drugs and believes that all diseases can be cured, including macro PCOS Herbal and diet. I’m not a vegetarian diet or eat healthy macro but I lost about 100 pounds (I am now 150 pounds), I exercise and I eat lots of vegetables and fruits. I do not know how to convince him to try clomid. I do not think I can handle a year of negative pregnancy tests. advice? appreciate the advice, but I can say with certainty that the children they want. He is the one who introduced the idea of trying to get pregnant you just really want that to happen naturally and do not receive, it is not possible.


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3 Responses to “I suffer from infertility but my husband doesn’t want to use treatments. Advice?”

  1. Kelly C says:

    Maybe you can find information and that of other specialist and learn to sit and read everything. it might come to better understand what is happening with you.

  2. notyou311 says:

    Her husband can not have children and it is his way of making sure you do not get pregnant. Talk to your doctor about your body and you have to decide on how to get treatment. The advice of your OB / GYN and her husband is also a posibilidad.Si he refuses to have children, divorce is the only answer. He is as stubborn as a mule and it may have an ulterior motive.

  3. Stacy & Ryan says:

    You know. . . . I think it should be to understand a little more. He does not know how difficult it is to deal with PCOS and the idea that it will take time to reflect on their own (if any) Persons with PCOS sometimes never conceive and those who do, we must years. Most women with PCOS can not be conceived without the help of fertility medicine. I have PCOS and took Clomid and got pregnant with my third round after trying for over a year and a half. Tired of waiting and trying to illness after trying so hard for so long. I would like to speak with her husband and compromise, because I am sure you will need Clomid fertility drugs and cheap. Your body may just need a boost. Like your husband, he must be a bit more support. This is what I think! :-)

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